The walking doll
A few years ago, I conquered my metaphorical mountain. It was hard. The pain was emotionally, physically, and spiritually excruciating at times. Because survival was my imperative; my beacon, I didn’t give much thought to how I would feel once I processed my repressed memories. Intuitively, I knew that in order to live, I had […]
After the Story
“Deeper,” he said
That’s where I want us headed.
She was blazing hot 😍
And he loved to play with fire🔥
The thought of we
Is like hitting the jackpot,like I won a lottery
I was in the fast lane you stole my heart
that’s highway robbery😋
and if your heart is broken
I’ll mend it like pottery😊
if only you could read my mind like telepathy
you’ll see I think about you all the time, each and every day🙈
Day after day,time pass away
For good is all I say
See,they say that
If you feel it ,
Don’t fight it – Never felt before😍
the perfect place is where we are
and it’s a perfect time for you
to take me down
See, all these honeys,all these guys
Feel and sound too basic now
None of them can text the way you, you do put it down
They say that regrets do come after
But what would you regret when happiness is all you know
Guess what my favorite attire has been since the day one
The smile that you give me, the glow 😊
Inspiration
Heey loves
First of all,I never add this last bit to my posts
But diaryofanoverthinker😊 got me thinking I should.
Especially getting into the TMIs laaawd🙈
So this post is inspired by my mans
It’s basically how he makes me feel.
It is said that it’s easier to pen down what’s in your heart and mind
So that’s it😊
Thanks for having a read❤
Credits
@art_foto Instagram for the pictures
Trying to rearrange words
But this blank page
Is here,
Teasing me for the
Lack of rhymes I’m showing here.
Came across a study that interested me. My best friend and I seem to actually afirm the study . It’s like geo fit puzzle. Some parts are complementary to other parts.
Your “sister from another mister” might actually share your genes. A new study has found that friends are more genetically similar to each other than to strangers.
In a process similar to how the Sorting Hat groups Hogwarts newbies into houses of like-minded wizards, researchers have found that humans tend to form social relationships with people who resemble them.
It’s part of a new field called sociogenomics that studies “social genomes” to understand human health and behavior.
This evolutionary sorting hat presents a bit of a chicken-or-the-egg situation: do we like our friends because they are like us, or are they like us because we like them?
Ever wonder why you can miraculously fit into your best friend’s shoes? It’s because people are attracted to others with similar shared characteristics like body mass index. Birds of a feather really do flock together – and people form bonds based on physical similarities and backgrounds – thanks to social homophily.
My heart woke me up crying
How can I help?
I begged
My heart said,write.
~Rupi
Coudn’t have penned this down in a better way. Got no L’s ,or do I ? It’s on a whoe spritua eve. Darn 😉
It is in the silence of our hearts,
when you drape your arms around my chest,
a little usual warmth baby, but today it hurts,
probably because we’re past our peak, past our best,
or maybe it’s because I know why this is so,
the guilt reflects unlike the ‘love’ that should,
it reflects, rather rings loud in a manner so damn true,
that when my air is supposed to be your air,
all we do is breathe without the gasps of the days of novelty,
in a sickening rhythm that echoes this silent despair,
how sour it tastes when I remember,
You said, “keep off sweet things, you’ll get cavities!”
Yes, I remember what you meant, you meant,
these sweet things leave the deadliest holes in us,
So before I let your heart run to where it longs to belong,
I want you to know,you were the SWEETEST.
…What screws us up most is the picture of how it’s supposed to be. I believe bae and boo don’t have to wait for February 14th for instance to go all lovey dovey on each other. When there’s any random day like December the eighteenth ,March the seventh,July fourth name it loves.
“Bitch,where have you been? What’s wrong with you? Celine shouted on top of her lungs. Jake’s been meaning to tell you he loves and now you just screw up and he was out there,she added. Sue couldn’t help it because she had been feeling the same too. It’s like a lady who’s been seeing someone for like a decade and the guy ain’t proposing yet,feel the lady? She probably gotta start giving him signals like which biscuits would you like, ‘marry?’ Better still ,I’m proposing we take rings the snack. Getting all weird in here?
Knock,knock went Sue’s hands on Jake’s Candy store door. To no response. She swang the door open as she tried to locate Jake. He was using the washroom. Sue couldn’t stop anywhere till she found him. Bugging into one closed door he found him,sitted on the toilet seatt and using his kindle. Come on he wasn’t just sitted on a washroom seat. Winks.
As she tried to get in ….her dress’ lace got hooked on the door handle. She was so blonde,she couldn’t move backwards to unhook the lace. Or maybe it’s coz she had let her heart lead her on. Remember Jake couldn’t get up to help her out.
“I love you Sue,I can’t wait for the so called perfect time to tell you this,”Jake went all matter-of-factly.
“Oh my God Jake, I love you right back,”Sue naturally responded. They both stretched over and locked their lips. Could it get any better?
Would you want to hear more of Jake and Sue?
Goodmorning loves 🙂
Hello been meaning to ask you something. How do you think I should tell Sue I love her? Jake muttered to Celine.
All through knowing Sue she had talked of crazy stuff she always wanted like being held hostage for four hours on a flight to her honeymoon. Schhhucks.
Over a cotton candy date ,eating through the candy together ,Celine thought out loud. She was her best friend and so she knew basically everything she would and wouldn’t like. Well that was it and done for Jake.
He was just waiting for that moment to pull through with his Whatnots.But have you ever noticed that when you are eagerly waiting up for something or a moment it seldom seems to be pulling through? He was waiting ,he sorely anticipated the day he’d finally tell her how he felt about her. Though they’d had stolen moments,hand touching moments…Oh Laaawd this sounds like me. Sips.
The trio worked at a departmental store where Jake had a candy store and the latter had a beauty parlor. That means that they saw each other everyday making Jake grow so weary. It was burning him up,choking him up but since he had already been given a picture of a perfect moment for his tatlaí he didn’t want to shit it.
Excuse me,I’m giving you five minutes to tell everyone in the parlor to empty their bags in this plastic bag or else I’ll use what I have In my pockets to take the breath outa y’all!A man threatened as he stretched out a blunt object that looked like a Beretta through his leather trench coat. Celine was so shakened.
She had no option like Stephen Marley would say ‘ I got,I got, I got options …’ She just had to break the news slowly to everyone as she had been dictated to by the robber. She began with the cashier then proceeded to Sue. Sue got really astounded that she took a pee and she couldnt stop or hold it back.
Then guess what,lol,La Bamba!
Jake stomped in.
There wasn’t a commotion when this whole stuff had been going on and so he’d barely have known what was on.
The man had got impatient or probably had he ‘blue balls’? Relatable huh?Feeling really good about all the money and valuables that had been emptied into his plastic bag but couldn’t have them yet. He had approached the Sue and Celine pee-pee drama.
Jake sauntering through an open lounge stopping behind the robber. What charity are we on and wasn’t told?he asked freely gazing at the plastic bag Celine was holding.
We being robbed by this man,Celine answered. The man repeated the same words he had told Celine at first with his back still facing Jake…. Jake took out a steel gun and pointed at him, you at the wrong place bitch! The niccur sped off. He didn’t even have a Beretta in his pocket lol.
Is it the moment yet to tell Sue?He didn’t the her,she was so embarrassed she strut through passed the lounge,home she went. Everywhere she passed she saw signs,like road signs,but hers just read pee,pee,pee.
One day,the whole store had an anniversary and the individual shop owners and entire management wined and dined. And there were tadaaaang….cotton candies. When Jake’s eyes fell on them, the love he had for Sue kindled the more. He felt like relieving himself off the weight his heart had been feeling.
And there she was yapping with her bestfriend . Some of her high school friends were invited guests whom were also managers of other chain stores and so on. She felt belittled considering she topped each of her grades. She being quite egocentric, didn’t want to feel that way. She took to hide .
Meanwhile Jake had already grabbed a cotton candy feeling too confident that it was the moment only to realise he couldn’t set his eyes on her beautiful round eyes.
To be continued…
Here’s to new beginnings
Be happier
Be kinder
Be unstoppable.
Go for all that you deserve and all that makes you happy.
Let the adventure begin 🙂
The quest for the perfect bridesmaid dresses is a challenge to many brides. Choosing the right dress that not only fits them but also you and your wedding theme can be a daunting task. Make little mistake and check out our tips / things to consider before nailing down on your bridesmaid dresses.
You should therefore consider the following:
Set a budget as to how much you are willing to spend on your bridesmaids’ dresses. Starting with a practical budget can help you make important decisions along the way.
That said, will you be paying for the dresses or do you require the bridesmaids to pay for their own dresses? Although, it is more common for the bride to pay for the bridesmaids’ dresses.
Decide on a color palette for your wedding before you set to decide on the color of your bridesmaids’ dresses. Do you prefer them to be wearing the same shade or otherwise?
Do you want the dresses to have the same styles or are you more keen towards mix & matches?
How do you envision their dresses to be? Long? Short? Mermaid cut? Consider the design beforehand. Also, the design may be an important factor that determines the cost of the dresses.
Materials also determine your costs – a good quality full lace dress can go up to thousands of ringgit, for example. Consider the venue of your wedding before you choose a material. Will it be an outdoor wedding the entire time? Be considerate to your girls by selecting a material that is comfortable and easy to walk / sit in.
Whether you choose to purchase, rent, or hire a designer is entirely up to you and your budget. There is no set of rules here.
Keep timeline in check – if you decided to tailor the dresses from scratch, give yourself minimum four months to have them done before your wedding day.
Yes, they do have a say (somewhat) in terms of the design and material of the dress. You would want them to be comfortable as much as possible throughout the day. So before finalizing on their dresses, it is a good idea to ask for their input.
Choosing the style of your bridesmaids’ dresses also depends on your wedding theme. Is your wedding glamorous? Rustic? Vintage or romantic? What are your theme colors?
Thinking of tie-dyed dresses? Disney-themed bridesmaids? The sky is the limit. Dive deep into your creative vision and make them into reality.
Both your wedding ceremony and reception venues also play an important factor in deciding your girls’ dresses. If your wedding is outdoors in a hot weather, be more considerate by selecting proper material such as chiffon.
If your wedding day falls on a winter (or on a rainy season), chances are temperatures may drop (although not significantly, here in Sabah). And your girls may need extra accessories such as a shawl or a jacket.
The idea is to complement their dresses with your wedding dress. The ultimate goas is that you are the “belle of the ball”. If you choose to wear a simpler wedding dress, then find ways to dress down your bridesmaids without compromising their look and style. But of course at the end of the day it is all up to you. After all, we want everyone to look gorgeous!
Source: Things to Consider When Choosing Your Bridesmaid Dresses
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